In love ?

Have you ever fallen madly in love? So madly in love that thoughts of your newly found love enter your mind day and night, your stomach tingles, you lose your appetite and begin to believe that you can quit your day job and somehow just live off of this freshly replenished feeling you have. ItContinue reading “In love ?”

Healing from emotional pain

At any age – we have all been through a thing or two. I wanted to blog about how to get your Mojo back or six steps to feeling better about a difficult situation, but realistically, I couldn’t blog simple steps when I personally and professionally know how incredibly hard a thing it is toContinue reading “Healing from emotional pain”

October

When the month of October roles in, it usually feels like the first reminder that fall is really here. Cool air, falling leaves, green, yellow, red and brown everywhere we look because of the changing weather. A period of seasonal transition. For many in the helping professions, October represents Domestic Violence Awareness month. And itsContinue reading “October”

Enough Already!?!

I spent most of today with a very dear friend of mine, Kristina. She asked me a question that I couldn’t easily answer – when is enough enough? We have all had times in our lives when we wondered if we have taken too much nonsense from someone. They have pushed our button for theContinue reading “Enough Already!?!”

What will Your Legacy be?

I recently learned that August is national “What will Your Legacy Be?” month. Without calling it a “legacy”, I have been thinking a lot about my own legacy and the legacy’s of others. In my practice legacy actually comes up pretty frequently. Your legacy is what you will leave, the mark you will make onContinue reading “What will Your Legacy be?”

The Art of Forgiveness

Everyone has experienced a time in their life when they have been hurt or betrayed. Sometimes these wounds can be so deep that you believe they couldn’t possibly heal. I am always impressed by those that suffer great losses, like the loss of a loved one at the hands of another and the immediate forgivenessContinue reading “The Art of Forgiveness”

Fighting fair

Many couples come in seeking therapy with a laundry list of the others faults and mistakes. Issues small and large alike come up, everything from adultery to who mails the bills out after the checks are written. But there is one thing that makes a big difference in the likelihood and ability for a coupleContinue reading “Fighting fair”

Generation Protest

This past Friday, my 11-year-old son, Elias, asked me to have a seat on the couch so we could talk. Gladly, and slightly amused, I sat down to hear what he had to say. He told me that he and the rest of the fifth graders at his school had been involved in a protestContinue reading “Generation Protest”

Out with the old and in with the new…….

This is a time for people to get rid of anything that isn’t working in their lives. Whether it’s a relationship that has been failing, a career move that needs to be made, pursuing an educational goal or setting limits with someone you care about….now is a good time. I don’t believe in New YearsContinue reading “Out with the old and in with the new…….”

Tis the season to be jolly…..

The holiday season can be a very depressing time for people. All the expectations of gift giving and family joy. Commercials streaming across our televisions of homes with perfectly manicured trees surrounded by families wearing holiday colored sweaters and big smiles as they give each other gifts. Television shows that show us the same. WhenContinue reading “Tis the season to be jolly…..”